A Father

And

His Two Sons


    There is a rather dramatic story in Scripture normally referred to as the parable of the "prodigal son"; however, it could be better seen as a parable of a father's love for his  two sons in spite of the their failures and faults.  It is also a picture of the heavenly Father's love for us.

   The context of the study begins with an accusation from the Pharisees and scribes against Jesus for receiving publicans and sinners.  "Then drew near unto him all the publicans and sinners for to hear him. And the Pharisees and scribes murmured, saying, This man receiveth sinners, and eateth with them" (Luke 15:1-3).  The Pharisees were the religious people who were strict keepers of the law of the Old Testament who also condemned anyone who did not keep the law.  The scribes' duty was to accurately transcribe every detail of the law even down to the accent marks.  The publicans were Jewish people who worked for the Roman government to collect taxes at exorbitant rates from their own people.  Sinners were those who had no respect for the law of God and went about their own ungodly way.  In response to the criticism that the Pharisees and scribes brought to Jesus, he begins with two other parables concerning publicans and Pharisees.  The first one is of the parable of the lost sheep.  Actually, it is the story of the shepherd that left the ninety-nine and went after the one lost sheep.  Guess what that one lost sheep was lost and had no way of finding his way back to the shepherd, but the shepherd who loved the sheep went to find it.  The shepherd rejoices greatly when he finds the sheep and invites his friends to rejoice with him.  Jesus concludes the parable with, "I say unto you, that likewise joy shall be in heaven over one sinner that repenteth, more than over ninety and nine just persons, which need no repentance"  (Luke 15:7). The second parable is that of the woman who had ten silver coins, but lost a silver coin.  She drops everything and diligently searches for the lost coin until she found it. We should see than there was absolutely NO WAY for the coin to find its way back to the woman.  The woman had to find the coin. Then she invites her friends to rejoice with her when she finds it.  Again, Jesus says, "Likewise, I say unto you, there is joy in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner that repenteth"  (Luke 15:10).  I have discovered that Jesus' expression of repentance is more than to stop doing wrong and start doing right.  It is coming to recognized that without God you can't save yourself.  It is coming to depend upon the amazing love and grace of God to save you.  

    "And he said, A certain man had two sons:  And the younger of them said to his father, Father, give me the portion of goods that falleth to me. And he divided unto them his living. And not many days after the younger son gathered all together, and took his journey into a far country, and there wasted his substance with riotous living.  And when he had spent all, there arose a mighty famine in that land; and he began to be in want.  And he went and joined himself to a citizen of that country; and he sent him into his fields to feed swine. And he would fain have filled his belly with the husks that the swine did eat: and no man gave unto him. And when he came to himself, he said, How many hired servants of my father's have bread enough and to spare, and I perish with hunger!  I will arise and go to my father, and will say unto him, Father, I have sinned against heaven, and before thee,  And am no more worthy to be called thy son: make me as one of thy hired servants. And he arose, and came to his father. But when he was yet a great way off, his father saw him, and had compassion, and ran, and fell on his neck, and kissed him.  And the son said unto him, Father, I have sinned against heaven, and in thy sight, and am no more worthy to be called thy son.  But the father said to his servants, Bring forth the best robe, and put it on him; and put a ring on his hand, and shoes on his feet:  And bring hither the fatted calf, and kill it; and let us eat, and be merry:  For this my son was dead, and is alive again; he was lost, and is found. And they began to be merry.  Now his elder son was in the field: and as he came and drew nigh to the house, he heard musick and dancing. And he called one of the servants, and asked what these things meant. And he said unto him, Thy brother is come; and thy father hath killed the fatted calf, because he hath received him safe and sound. And he was angry, and would not go in: therefore came his father out, and intreated him.  And he answering said to his father, Lo, these many years do I serve thee, neither transgressed I at any time thy commandment: and yet thou never gavest me a kid, that I might make merry with my friends:  But as soon as this thy son was come, which hath devoured thy living with harlots, thou hast killed for him the fatted calf.  And he said unto him, Son, thou art ever with me, and all that I have is thine. It was meet that we should make merry, and be glad: for this thy brother was dead, and is alive again; and was lost, and is found"  (Luke 15:11-32).
    Every parable has one main theme and this parable is more about a father's love for his sons, than the simple story of a rebellious son.   The story begins with, "And he said, A certain man had two sons"  (Luke 15:11).  It does not begin with, "There was a rebellious son".   However, the next verse tells us about the younger son's rebellion. Under the Old Testament Law, a son does not get his inheritance until his father dies.  However, this younger son, demands his inheritance immediately!   In essence, the younger son is saying, "I have no respect for your laws, Dad, and I wish that you were dead.  Give me my inheritance now."   There is no indication that the father in any way argues with his son over the inheritance.  He simply gave him his inheritance.  "And the younger of them said to his father, Father, give me the portion of goods that falleth to me. And he divided unto them his living"  (Luke 15:12).  In reality, the father could have legally refused to give him his inheritance.  Legally, under the law, he could have had his son stoned to death for his rebellion, but in his love for him, he gave him the inheritance although he knew that it would be of no value to him.

    APPLICATION:  This is a picture of God's love for us.  Sometime we come to believe that we can't measure up to God standards for us, demand our own way, and run away from God's presence.  Note: wrong beliefs lead to wrong actions and wrong actions lead to negative consequences.

    The boy felt that he could no longer stay in the house of his father and soon left home to get away as far as he could.  I am also sure that the father knew that his son would waste his inheritance and that is exactly what happened.  "And not many days after the younger son gathered all together, and took his journey into a far country, and there wasted his substance with riotous living"  (Luke 15:13).  The expression "riotous living" would infer that he was indulging himself in the flesh with that which not lawful. Of course, such living is ungodly and leads to poverty.   We should also note that the father who dearly loved his son, did not chase after his son, but allowed him to experience the consequences of his decision.  However, we find another truth here, the love of the father was patient to wait for his son's return.

    APPLICATION:  God, in His love for us, gives us what we want and lets us run away even though He knows that we will be hurting ourselves. We often waste years and years of our lives.  However, God patiently waits for us to have a change of heart.

    Sure enough, he lost every penny of his inheritance and then further disaster strikes.  "And when he had spent all, there arose a mighty famine in that land; and he began to be in want"  (Luke 15:14).  The country's economy would depend a great deal on agriculture and when the famine arose, people lost their means of income and even their source of food.  Therefore, "And he went and joined himself to a citizen of that country; and he sent him into his fields to feed swine"  (Luke 15:15).  The young man could not survive on his own; therefore, he had to get a job.  He got a job feeding pigs in this foreign country.  Pigs are filthy, stink, and are like huge rats.  God had forbidden His people, the Jews to even eat the unclean meat of pigs (ham, bacon, or pork sausage).  A job feeding pigs would be the very last kind of job a Jewish boy would want.

    However, things got even worse.  People refused to give him any handouts, so he has to eat the husk along with the pigs.  "And he would fain have filled his belly with the husks that the swine did eat: and no man gave unto him"  (Luke 15:16).  Husk are the hulls or by product of the ears of corn or other grain.  The husks are course, tough, and hard to chew and even harder to swallow with more of straw or wood flavor.

    APPLICATION:  When we run away from God, we may also hit rock bottom, finding ourselves in the pig pen, eating with the pigs.  

    When he was at the lowest point of his life, he gets a revelation that his father's hired servants have food to eat while he is currently starving with hunger.  "And when he came to himself, he said, How many hired servants of my father's have bread enough and to spare, and I perish with hunger!"  (Luke 15:17).  Revelation often comes when we hit rock bottom and have no place to look, but up.

    Next, we find him preparing his speech that he is to give to his father.  "I will arise and go to my father, and will say unto him, Father, I have sinned against heaven, and before thee, And am no more worthy to be called thy son: make me as one of thy hired servants"  (Luke 15:18-19).  Because of his rebellion against his father, his wasting his inheritance, and now in a position of shame, he could no longer see himself being received as a son of his father.  

    In great shame and humiliation, he heads home.  "And he arose, and came to his father" (Luke 15:20a).  Here we see something amazing.  It is something, that most would not expect, even often the Christian church does not accept.  His father who had allowed him to leave with his inheritance is watching for his rebellious son to return and sees him coming in the distance.  He is not waiting to scold him and say, "I told you so." He is not waiting to rebuke him or reject him. He is not waiting to punish him for his wrong.  He is not angry or holding a grudge against him, but waiting to lavish him with love.   "But when he was yet a great way off, his father saw him, and had compassion, and ran, and fell on his neck, and kissed him"  (Luke 15:20).  Even before the son could confess and give his repentance speech, the father had compassion on him.  He had sympathy and pity on him.  He didn't even stand back and wait for his son to come to him, but rather ran to his son. The father would have to raised up his own robe to reveal his own bare legs to run to him. What would the neighbors think?  He embraced him in his filth and stench and kissed him.  I am sure that he smelled like a pig and looked about as dirty, but that didn't matter.  He was still his son and had always been his son even in his rebellion.

    APPLICATION:  Our heavenly Father in His own love awaits for our return to him.  It doesn't matter where we have been or what we have done or how much wrong we have done.  He is not waiting to condemn us or punish us.   He is waiting for an opportunity to run to us, and to embrace us exactly where we are with the filth and stench still upon our clothes and bodies. He wants to greet us with a kiss of acceptance.  

    Finally, the son was able to begin his speech, but not finish it. "And the son said unto him, Father, I have sinned against heaven, and in thy sight, and am no more worthy to be called thy son"  (Luke 15:21).  His father stopped him in the middle of his speech before he could ask just to be a servant.   "But the father said to his servants, Bring forth the best robe, and put it on him; and put a ring on his hand, and shoes on his feet"  (Luke 15:22).

    There is much to be seen in this verse which we could easily overlook.  The father is still in charge and calls his servants to duty.  First, his father demands that the best robe is brought and and put on his son.  The young man was probably in dirty rags.  The robe would be an outer garment to cover his nakedness.  The best robe would be a robe for kings or princes and a robe of acceptance for festive occasions.

    APPLICATION: Through the sacrifice of Jesus, our heavenly Father calls for the robe of righteousness be put on us to cover all our sinfulness.  The righteousness that we receive through faith in Jesus makes us acceptable to the Father.

    Second, the father also called for a ring to be put on his hand.  The ring would be more personal.  It would have been a ring signifying that he was in the family.  It was a symbol of wealth and dignity.  The imprint of the ring might be used as a credit card.  With the ring being gold, it was a symbol of everlasting relationship.  See "And Pharaoh took off his ring from his hand, and put it upon Joseph's hand, and arrayed him in vestures of fine linen, and put a gold chain about his neck"  (Genesis 41:42).

    APPLICATION:  The ring to believers may be the seal of the Holy Spirit, the earnest of the Spirit.  When one becomes a Believer the Holy Spirit joins with our spirit which is our acceptance into the family of God.  Being born of the Spirit gives us inheritance rights to the wealth as children of God. It is an everlasting inheritance.  It is solely by the mercy and grace of God.

    Third, his father had shoes to be put on his feet.  Slaves were often barefoot.  The boy was not to be a servant, a slave, but he was accepted and to be known as the father's own son. Again, the father never disowned his son, but it was the son that had disowned the father.  

    APPLICATION:  Our Father gives us shoes of the gospel of peace.  Jesus has made peace with the Father in our behalf that we might become sons in a personal sense.  We are no longer slaves to sin or the world.  We have been delivered from the bondage of sin that we may sit at the table of God as sons of God.

    Fourth, the father sent for the fatted calf to be killed and served to his son.  Of course, the son was at the point of starving, but the father wanted him to have the best, the best tasting and the most delicious meat.  "And bring hither the fatted calf, and kill it; and let us eat, and be merry"  (Luke 15:23).

    APPLICATION: Our heavenly Father wants to provide for all our needs.  He want to fill our mouths with good things.  He want to satisfy our every longing. He wants to heal our hurts.   He wants to replace our sorrow with joy.

    Fifth, the father called for a homecoming party for his son.  It was to be a time of celebration and enjoyment.  "For this my son was dead, and is alive again; he was lost, and is found. And they began to be merry"  (Luke 15:24).

    APPLICATION:  Our heavenly Father has called for a homecoming celebration which is to continue into eternity.  We are to declared the praises of our Father who has called us out of darkness into His marvelous light.

    We have been looking at the father's love for his prodigal son, but we should also look at his love for the oldest son as well.  "Now his elder son was in the field: and as he came and drew nigh to the house, he heard musick and dancing. And he called one of the servants, and asked what these things meant.  And he said unto him, Thy brother is come; and thy father hath killed the fatted calf, because he hath received him safe and sound"  (Luke 15:25-27).  

    The self-righteous older son, like the Pharisees and Scribes, became very angry and would not go into the party.  "And he was angry, and would not go in: therefore came his father out, and intreated him"  (Luke 15:28).  A spirit of jealousy keeps one from enjoying the company of those with whom they are jealous of.  However, again we see the fathers love for his jealous son.  He could have said to his servants, "Just let him pout", but instead he went out of the party to encourage him and invite him into the party.

    APPLICATION:  Our heavenly Father wants everyone to come to the party.

    The older son complains to his father he has been faithful and always obedient to his father, but through all the years, his father never even killed a young goat and gave him any kind of party for him and his friends.  "And he answering said to his father, Lo, these many years do I serve thee, neither transgressed I at any time thy commandment: and yet thou never gavest me a kid, that I might make merry with my friends"  (Luke 15:29).  He felt that it was unfair for his father to now throwing a party for his younger brother especially after he spend his inheritance on prostitutes.  Furthermore, his father is throwing a big party by butchering a fatted calf, an expensive animal that would feed many guests not just a man and his son. "But as soon as this thy son was come, which hath devoured thy living with harlots, thou hast killed for him the fatted calf"  (Luke 15:30).  The older son didn't speak of his brother being his brother, but said this to his father, "... this thy son...".   Self-righteousness always alienates one from others.  Self righteousness had kept him from having a close fellowship with his father and his brother. 

    APPLICATION:  Our salvation is based upon grace, "God's unmerited favor", rather than living a perfect faithful life. We don't lose it by sinning.  Whenever, we like the Pharisees and the Scribes, become legalistic about our salvation, we become critical and judgmental of others who fall short once they are saved.   

    Look at his father's amazing response. "And he said unto him, Son, thou art ever with me, and all that I have is thine"  (Luke 15:31).   The father loved his older son as much as he did the younger son.  The father begins with the word "Son" rather than with the pronoun "you".   However, the older son had got caught up in performance approval.  Although he was the eldest son, with traditional rights to twice as much as his younger brother received and all that his father had obtained even after his younger brother had left home, he hadn't asked for a penny or a party.  He had just been slaving in the field to get or keep his father's approval.

    The father not only loved the youngest son, he also wanted his older brother to share in that love.  "It was meet that we should make merry, and be glad: for this thy brother was dead, and is alive again; and was lost, and is found"  (Luke 15:32).  

    Note: Wrong beliefs lead to wrong actions.  Unfortunately, both sons believed that their father's love was conditional.  I am convinced that younger son believed that he could not live up to his father's approval, so he demanded his inheritance and left home. A wrong belief led to a wrong action.  After he had sinned, he could no longer see himself as a son, only as a hired servant. The older son believed that he had to perform perfectly or he would lose his father's approval; therefore, his focus was on living a perfect life or remaining faithful to the end.  Again, a wrong belief led to a wrong action.  He also became furious when his younger brother was received his father's love after his younger brother had indulged in sin.  Again, a wrong belief led to a wrong action.

    APPLICATION:  If you have never accepted the GRACE of the loving heavenly Father, you can do it today.  You don't have to wait until you live a perfect life! It is not about keeping the 613 laws of the Old Testament. You can take a step of faith and the Father will run to you. He will hug and kiss you.  He will call for a robe of righteousness to be put on your back, a ring of acceptance into the family to be put on your finger, and shoes of sonship to be put on your feet.  He will kill the fatted calf and throw a party of celebration for you that you can rejoice in your salvation.

     If you have been attending church, reading the Bible, praying, giving to the poor, and avoiding doing all that it evil to get the Father's approval or keep the Father's approval, He wants for you drop the performance orientation and come in and join the party.  He wants you accept His grace of love and acceptance and to rejoice over others who have returned to receive His grace.


    
GRACE